Thursday, July 8, 2010

DOES YOUR PAST MATTER?

I got into a conversation with my friend yesterday about how he felt knowing every single detail about his partners past was necessary. I thought it wasn't because in a relationship it's the present and the future that count.

His reason for saying this was because he friend was hanging with this girl and they were trying to make babies but it wasn't 'sourcing' for them. They then went to some 'pastor' who told them they should get married then because God would bless the with a baby...Yea whatever. So they get married but still no show and the girl finally confesses that she's had four abortions so therefore she can't be a baby making machine. That is rather unfortunate mome.... Instead of trapping my man, she should have been honest.

I understand where he is coming from though.

I kind off disagree with this whole past bullshit because some fools dwell on your past. In fact what could anyone possibly do that will be such a big deal?(maybe kill someone). I like sex so if i want to sleep with you I will. Society makes this look like you are Satan's wife.If i like you I like you. Everyone is like that too but we've been programmed to hide. For fucks sake WE are always hiding. People need to mind their own business and start thinking about profitable shit.

I am taking this personal because I was in a relationship like that. Ex-boyfriend always coming up to me with some fuckery he heard from a friend. Sad part is most of the shit he was hearing wasn't true and those same tattle-tales wanted to fuck me. Ended a seemingly beautiful relationship because of this nonsense...

Instead of dwelling on past happenings rather focus on NOW and FUTURE.

By the way no one should pull a Bible stunt here. Don't want to hear it. Tired of the Robotsheep way of life.

1 comment:

  1. Just discovering the blog so i am playing catch up. I am the girl who likes to know everything - i think it is less so i can obsess about ex-gfs and more so because m'asum ye me de. I just like to know. Thankfully, i do not dwell on the past - shit, we all have our skeletons.

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